Hello Everyone!
Here we are in Day two of a the Skate Tulsa competition in Oklahoma.
I am really sorry about leaving everyone with a bummer on my last posting.
As a parent, and a dad in particular, you can understand how difficult it is to be a parent sometimes when we want to know all the answers and protect our children from things that hurt them and make them sad. I once told my friend Anita that our job as parents are to prepare our kids for the days when we're not around. I guess that's true. Sometimes, we have to step in and help them cope and keep their spirits up. Sometimes, it's like the weight of the world is on their tiny shoulders. And, sometimes, it's okay for them have a mom and dad that can hold them and tell them that they are the best at whatever they are doing. And then hold them until the crying stops. I imagine, I would be doing this if Gabby were 8 or 18. That's just fine with me.
Last night, Gabby had a low-point in her budding "career" as a skater. The pain of disappointment and the reality of no matter how hard you try, how hard you pray, and how much you work at something - sometimes things still don't go your way. We don't know why. Maybe the Big Guy has his reasons and we just have to move on.
My advice was that to stick with it and her turn would come. Sometimes you get a good break and sometimes you don't. Sometimes the judges see things and sometimes they don't. Sometimes they see a jump that wasn't perfect or a spin that wasn't centered just right. And, yes, sometimes, they don't see the competitor who crossed the line, skated out of bounds, two-footed a jump, wobbled on a spiral, or didn't keep their arms straight. I guess that is why they call it "ice skating".
Well, today, I am so glad to say was Gabby's day. She focused and skated, probably, the best and cleanest program I have ever seen her skate to date. When she jumped, she "stuck" the ice and landed them with confidence and dare I say - "authority". She was determined to land those jumps and it was like "see that!, take THAT!". Her speed was faster and her spirals were steady. Her back was ram-rod straight. She was determined and you could see it her face, if she was nervous, you couldn't see it. It was like she was daring the "bad luck" lords to rain on her program. Fortunately, they all smiled and she came in FIRST! Yes, Gabby did it! She won a Gold medal in Free Style. Woo-hoo! Not only that, but she did it decicisevly. Her ordinals (the judges' rankings) all had her at number 1! We are all so proud. The skate club was just as loud and we threw (as is custom) all kinds of bears and balls and "stuff". Gabby skated off the ice with her arms full of gifts and just grinning from ear to ear.
Joey Bloom, Sarah's father, had to go get the scores because I did want see them. I was so SURE that no matter how well she skated, the judges were going put her last - again. I just couldn't stand to see that if it happened.
Fortunately, Joey came back and said Gabby had received the Gold and Sarah (his daughter) had the Bronze. Speaking of Sara, she is SUCH a cutie and she had a blast. I think that she should have gotten the silver and probably would have except for the backward crossovers that Joey said she was having trouble with. It's okay Sara - you'll get them!
So, the Texas Gulf Coast team did very well. I don't have the final tally but I know that Allison, Ally, Sarah, Katelyn, and Gabby all came home with goodies.
Personally, I think I have added several more "grey" hairs to my otherwise "jet black" hair. (Rrrright). Oh great. Oh well, I'll be right there next to Gabby. Cheering her on through her highs and her lows. As long as she has the determination and the drive, I'll be there...if anything - to cover the bills. Ha,ha.
Go Gabby Go!
I love you.
Dad.